Your best friends know you the littlest
How does it happen people, who spend much time with us, don’t know who we are? What we like. What is important for us.
People see differently.
Recently, I had my birthday party. I’ve got plenty of gifts which were totally different than I would wish to receive. I asked myself: do people see me differently than I see myself? Do they think I like different things than I like in real? Or maybe they share what they like. Or what seems nice for them. Or what they would like to receive.
We give what we want to receive.
Then I realized: if I’m able to get myself all I need on my own why am I not happy with what I receive? Why am I not happy with someone’s intention to make me happy? With the fact, someone tried to make me smile. With the fact, someone did it for me while he could pretend having forgotten.
Isn’t the same with all other people who do something for us? We expect from them something different than they give.
Our biggest mistake is to believe other people think the way we do.
They see us through their own perspective. They give what they believe will make us happy. They share what matters for them.
I learned that it doesn’t matter what they give. It matters they want to give something. Even if, it’s the smallest thing in the world.
Do you care about gifts you receive?
Do you say thank you even if you don’t like the gift?
Do you appreciate everything which is done for you?