Tag: love

Why we should never avoid suffering

Why we should never avoid suffering

Knowing that my beloved ones get hurt or rejected cause me immense pain. I would like to take it over. I would like to protect them against any injustice. I would like them to be happy all the time. Learning goes first. That is why […]

I wanted my mom to be everything for me.

I wanted my mom to be everything for me.

I’ve never known how did it feel to be the whole world for someone. I never felt I was. There was always something more important. There was always something else to do. There was always something which couldn’t wait. For the first time in my […]

How did I manage to overcome my past in 8 simple steps

How did I manage to overcome my past in 8 simple steps

One is for sure. We cannot forget our past. But we can accept it. We can live with it. And we can stop thinking about it every day. One bad chapter doesn’t mean it’s the end of the story. The only thing is that sometimes […]

Your best friends know you the littlest.

Your best friends know you the littlest.

How does it happen people, who spend much time with us, don’t know who we are? What we like. What is important for us. People see differently. Recently, I had my birthday party. I’ve got plenty of gifts which were totally different than I would […]

Why do I like my own company?

Why do I like my own company?

All my life I cared about people. I cared if they liked me. I cared if they wanted to meet me. I cared if they said good things about me. I couldn’t imagine myself being happy without them. I couldn’t imagine myself not having friends. […]

I don’t want to spend my old age in front of the TV.

I don’t want to spend my old age in front of the TV.

How do we want to spend our old age? Do we want to spend it in front of the TV watching someone’s else life? Do we want to spend it at bed waiting for death to come? Do we want to live up every day […]

3 best tips on how you can quickly change your life.

3 best tips on how you can quickly change your life.

We fear life changes because we fear to lose what is already known. What if something which is known makes us unhappy? – I’m fed up with my work. I can’t do it anymore. – Why don’t you change it? – I’m scared I wouldn’t […]

You don’t have to pretend. It’s fine to have a normal life.

You don’t have to pretend. It’s fine to have a normal life.

Sometimes we care more for what is outside than for what is inside. And this is at that moment when our life falls apart. It’s like with people in our life. When we care more for what people think about us rather than what we […]

I don’t care that no one cares.

I don’t care that no one cares.

Could you make your dreams come true even if no one believes you can? What if the people you love don’t support you in what you are doing? What if you have to fight for your dreams alone? After a lecture of this article (here), […]

Imperfect couples last longer.

Imperfect couples last longer.

Whenever a friend of mine started a new relationship she was always saying how wonderful they were together. How powerful they were together. How perfect they were together. Nothing seemed comparable. Then one day, just in the middle of saying something unimportant, she was telling […]