Tag: feelings

Your best friends know you the littlest.

Your best friends know you the littlest.

How does it happen people, who spend much time with us, don’t know who we are? What we like. What is important for us. People see differently. Recently, I had my birthday party. I’ve got plenty of gifts which were totally different than I would […]

Night dreams that can destroy our life.

Night dreams that can destroy our life.

Do we know the meaning of our night dreams? We forget about them as soon as we get up from the bed. But they remain in us. They come from our subconsciousness. They come from our thoughts. Our emotions. Our feelings. From what we try […]

Stop to unproductive complaining. Welcome to negative feedback.

Stop to unproductive complaining. Welcome to negative feedback.

I’m used to repeating to my team I’ll be never tolerating unproductive complaining at work. On the other hand, I’ll always welcome negative feedback. I see so much difference between each of them. Complaining is unproductive. We believe complaining helps us to clear out our […]

You don’t have to pretend. It’s fine to have a normal life.

You don’t have to pretend. It’s fine to have a normal life.

Sometimes we care more for what is outside than for what is inside. And this is at that moment when our life falls apart. It’s like with people in our life. When we care more for what people think about us rather than what we […]

Imperfect couples last longer.

Imperfect couples last longer.

Whenever a friend of mine started a new relationship she was always saying how wonderful they were together. How powerful they were together. How perfect they were together. Nothing seemed comparable. Then one day, just in the middle of saying something unimportant, she was telling […]

Why did I stop to give people money for free?

Why did I stop to give people money for free?

I remember my first job and my first salary. I felt like I could save the world. I felt like I could save all people in need. And I didn’t understand why other people were not the same way. Obviously as it usually happens I […]

When we don’t have time to say goodbye.

When we don’t have time to say goodbye.

Sometimes we live as if we would be meant to live forever. Sometimes we live as other people would be meant to live forever. And when it doesn’t happen we are shocked. The time ran out.

What do you do when someone says: you’re shit?

What do you do when someone says: you’re shit?

Do you believe it? Do you deny it? Do you defend yourself? It’s easy to get destroyed when we don’t know our value. When we rely on what other people say. When we believe other people are always right. I’ve been believing in what others […]

Let’s stop being scared to say no.

Let’s stop being scared to say no.

Saying no doesn’t come easily for many of us. We don’t want to disappoint other people. We don’t want to make other people angry. We don’t want to be rejected. Many times in my life I should have said no. And I didn’t. Why I […]

Thanks God life ain’t perfect.

Thanks God life ain’t perfect.

We all don’t like when things don’t go our way. We don’t like when something happens we’re not prepared for. We don’t like when life sends us a negative feedback. I remember every single situation when I felt rejected. I was asking myself: why me? […]