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Life Change: How to go through the dark night of your life?

Life Change: How to go through the dark night of your life?

I feel a breakthrough change which is currently going on in me. I feel something is falling apart. I feel something is crumbling. I feel something has shattered in me. It’s hard times which make you stronger. But first, you have to go through the […]

Life Story: Life must go on.

Life Story: Life must go on.

My beloved grandma, I wake up every morning and I’m wondering if you see the same sunrise as I do. I’m wondering where you are. What are you doing now? Are you fine? Are you happy? Another day, I asked you: – Do you believe […]

Life Story: I’m sorry I let you go.

Life Story: I’m sorry I let you go.

I lost one of the persons I loved the most. I lost one of the persons who loved me unconditionally. I loved one of the most important persons in my life. I lost my grandma. I haven’t seen her for eight months. I was about […]

Life Challenge: Don’t give the maximum. Go for optimum.

Life Challenge: Don’t give the maximum. Go for optimum.

Working in a corporation kills my creativity. Rules, procedures, micro-management, choosing between a team-oriented approach and a client-oriented approach. Finding a balance is pretty tough. The more you move into one of these directions, the more you get criticized by the other party. The more […]

Life Change: Life changes I’ve made overnight.

Life Change: Life changes I’ve made overnight.

Today, I feel like it’s over. Like something must end. Either, it’s the situation I’m in, people I’m with or a part of myself. We all have big changes in our lives that are more or less a second chance. I feel like I cannot […]

Life Change: How I wasted my time looking for happiness

Life Change: How I wasted my time looking for happiness

I have spent 30 years looking for happiness. I’ve got all I wanted to be happy. And I’m still unhappy. Why did nobody tell me happiness doesn’t exist? Eventually, I wouldn’t waste 30 years chasing the wind. We’re brought up told that happiness is a […]

Why we should never avoid suffering

Why we should never avoid suffering

Knowing that my beloved ones get hurt or rejected cause me immense pain. I would like to take it over. I would like to protect them against any injustice. I would like them to be happy all the time. Learning goes first. That is why […]

I don’t want to spend my old age in front of the TV.

I don’t want to spend my old age in front of the TV.

How do we want to spend our old age? Do we want to spend it in front of the TV watching someone’s else life? Do we want to spend it at bed waiting for death to come? Do we want to live up every day […]

You don’t have to pretend. It’s fine to have a normal life.

You don’t have to pretend. It’s fine to have a normal life.

Sometimes we care more for what is outside than for what is inside. And this is at that moment when our life falls apart. It’s like with people in our life. When we care more for what people think about us rather than what we […]

When we don’t have time to say goodbye.

When we don’t have time to say goodbye.

Sometimes we live as if we would be meant to live forever. Sometimes we live as other people would be meant to live forever. And when it doesn’t happen we are shocked. The time ran out.