If you’re looking for habits which will improve your life, here’s a bunch of tips which made my life incomparably better.
1. Stop judging
It’s easy to judge people seeing just a scrap of their life. Imagine if you would act differently if you were in their shoes. Imagine how would you feel being in their skin. Judging is nothing but seeing things from our own perspective. The truth is that I cannot understand you looking at you through my eyes and you cannot understand me looking at me through your eyes.
The full understanding requires to change the view. If I look through your eyes, I will never judge you. Because I would do exactly the same. I would feel exactly the same. So I know you do your best and I’m not authorized to judge you.
2. Stop complaining
If you let every little thing bother you, you’ll never enjoy good things to come. You might be so busy with seeking what does not work for you that you might not notice a light trying to shine in your life.
Make sure you always see a glass half full. It helps to appreciate every tiny positive thing appearing on your horizon. It doesn’t have to be big and spectacular. Be aware of good karma returning to you. Even if today you don’t see clearly the importance of these things, tomorrow they might get a different ring.
3. Stop saying yes
Saying yes to all requests and proposals prevents me from making the right choice among available options. It doesn’t let me question the real need behind it and the final result it might bring.
The more no you say the more room you leave for making the right choices. The idea is not to reject any opportunity coming. The idea is to value your time so you can benefit only from the best options.
4. Stop revenging
The first thought you might get once someone hurts you deeply is the one to take revenge. You aim at making someone suffer as much as you did. Those who managed to revenge know that it brings only temporary satisfaction, but eventually, the pain remains the same. The revenge expands the emptiness in your heart and doesn’t bring relief as you might have expected.
The only remedy is forgiveness. It’s forgiveness that calms down unbearable feelings. It’s forgiveness which brings a new sense to your existence. It’s forgiveness which makes you breathe again.
5. Stop doubting
Doubt arises from fear of failure. Stop fearing failure. Failure is a natural learning pattern. The more painful the more effective. If you never want to fail, you should stay at home and refrain from doing anything. It is called “existence”.
Afford to make mistakes, to fail, to be wrong. Bad decisions led you to better decisions next time. If you wish to avoid mistakes, you’ll never get far. Safe roads end up sooner or later. Accept it and let yourself learn.
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