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Small is better than big.

Small is better than big.

Life is not about big things we do. We don’t do big things. We do small things which can be transformed either into big achievements or big failures.

Your best friends know you the littlest.

Your best friends know you the littlest.

How does it happen people, who spend much time with us, don’t know who we are? What we like. What is important for us. People see differently. Recently, I had my birthday party. I’ve got plenty of gifts which were totally different than I would […]

Prison is not a place. It’s a state of mind.

Prison is not a place. It’s a state of mind.

Can we be free in a prison? Yes, we can. Prison doesn’t have to be the jail. Prison might be the place we live in. The people we live with. Things we can do nothing about. Today, I felt I can be free regardless of […]

People know better how we should live.

People know better how we should live.

Most of the people tend to tell us what should we do. How we should live. Who we should listen to. As if there was one best way to approach life. As if there was one best receipt to make our life happy. As if […]

We can’t because we don’t want to.

We can’t because we don’t want to.

The easiest answer to destroy something is to say I can’t. The easiest answer to build something is to say I’ll try. The difference is that there is no such thing we cannot do. The question is if we want to. I will not change. […]

Why do I like my own company?

Why do I like my own company?

All my life I cared about people. I cared if they liked me. I cared if they wanted to meet me. I cared if they said good things about me. I couldn’t imagine myself being happy without them. I couldn’t imagine myself not having friends. […]

I don’t want to spend my old age in front of the TV.

I don’t want to spend my old age in front of the TV.

How do we want to spend our old age? Do we want to spend it in front of the TV watching someone’s else life? Do we want to spend it at bed waiting for death to come? Do we want to live up every day […]

Night dreams that can destroy our life.

Night dreams that can destroy our life.

Do we know the meaning of our night dreams? We forget about them as soon as we get up from the bed. But they remain in us. They come from our subconsciousness. They come from our thoughts. Our emotions. Our feelings. From what we try […]

What do I do when my motivation goes down?

What do I do when my motivation goes down?

How does it feel when my motivation goes down? I feel like all I do doesn’t have sense anymore. I feel like all I do is useless. I feel totally lost on my way. Motivation is something temporary. It’s not something we can build our […]

How to live with people we don’t like?

How to live with people we don’t like?

We all have people in our life we want to avoid. We want to keep them away from us. We want to have the less contact possible with. Somehow it might happen we live close to them. We work with them. We pass them every […]


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Thanks God life ain’t perfect.

Thanks God life ain’t perfect.

We all don’t like when things don’t go our way. We don’t like when something happens we’re not prepared for. We don’t like when life sends us a negative feedback.

I remember every single situation when I felt rejected. I was asking myself: why me? What did I do wrong? Did I say something wrong? Did I like someone too much? Did I ask for too much?

One day I realized that sometimes the more you ask the less you get. Sometimes the more you ask the less you get. Sometimes the more you insists the less you are listened.

I remember every single situation when I felt the worst. When I wanted to do something good, but eventually people were blaming me for doing something really bad.

I thought: it’s pointless to save the world when the world doesn’t want to be saved.

I remember every single situation when I felt at the bottom. When I expected something different than life gave me. When I wanted run away.

Until I understood all this is only to make me stronger.

In my life there was plenty of situations when I wanted to give up. I had two options. I could really give up or I could take the negative feedback life was sending me and do something better in my life. I knew the first option will lead me nowhere. And eventually will make me a grumpy cat. I chose the second one.

You know what was the best in all critical experiences when I was pushed to my limits?

I had to take life in my hands and to do things differently. All these bad events which occurred in my life made me stronger even if I’ve been not seeing it at that time.

I see it now.

And I’m thankful my life ain’t perfect. Because today I’m the person who I am.

And obviously I ask myself from time to time why can’t I have such a nice, easy and pleasant life as others do. But I realize after a while: no, they don’t. We all have got own problems, issues and challenges we are supposed to deal with. The only difference between us is the way of dealing with them.

We can give up.

We can ignore.

We can face.

We can fight.

We can accept.

We can ask for help.

We can try once again.

We can start over.

We can challenge.

We can learn.

We can change.

We can do something differently.

Let’s start over to make a difference in our life.

Have a great day full of motivation to make the difference!

Mimi.