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Let’s make people doing what they’re best at.

Let’s make people doing what they’re best at.

I’m a person who doesn’t pay attention to small things. I may not pay attention to where I left my stuff. I may not pay attention to how did I manage to scratch my car. I may not pay attention to what was the weather […]

How did I survive the worst moments in my life?

How did I survive the worst moments in my life?

It happens regularly I feel like all crush upon my head. For a moment, I feel like it’s over. I feel like I’m totally broken. I feel like I lost everything. I feel like crying. I let myself cry a while to feel better. And […]

How did I learn to enjoy the moment?

How did I learn to enjoy the moment?

Few years ago I was obsessed with taking photos whenever I was going on holidays. I wanted to photograph everything around me as well as myself with everything. I wanted everybody to see all I saw. I wanted to update every moment on social media. […]

3 best ways to take risk of life change.

3 best ways to take risk of life change.

We fear of life changes because we’re afraid losing what is already known. What if something which is known makes us unhappy? – I’m fed up with my work. I can’t do it anymore. – Why don’t you change it? – I’m scared I wouldn’t […]

Negative feedback vs. Unproductive Complaining.

Negative feedback vs. Unproductive Complaining.

I’m used to repeat to my team I’ll be never tolerating unproductive complaining at work. On the other hand, I’ll always welcome negative feedback. I see so much difference between each of them. We believe complaining helps us to clear out our mind from stressful […]

How caring for appearances kills us?

How caring for appearances kills us?

Sometimes we care more for what is outside than for what is inside. And this is at that moment when our life falls apart. It’s like with people in our life. When we care more for what people think about us rather than what we […]

What if no one cares?

What if no one cares?

Could you make you dreams come true even if no one believes you can? What if the people you love don’t support you in what you are doing? What if you have to fight for your dreams alone? After a lecture of this article (here) […]

People don’t think the way we do.

People don’t think the way we do.

How does it happen there’re people who spend so much time with us and don’t know who we are. What we like. What is important for us. Last time I had my birthday I’ve got plenty of gifts which were totally different than I would […]

Imperfect couples last longer.

Imperfect couples last longer.

Whenever a friend of mine started a new relationship she was always saying how wonderful they were together. How powerful they were together. How perfect they were together. Nothing seemed comparable. Then one day, just in the middle of saying something unimportant, she was telling […]

We can be whoever we want to be.

We can be whoever we want to be.

When I was little girl I dreamt about being a singer. But I’ve been told: – You? Singer? You have no voice to sing. Forget about it. I believed it. When I was young I dreamt about being a model. But I’ve been told: – […]


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Thanks God life ain’t perfect.

Thanks God life ain’t perfect.

We all don’t like when things don’t go our way. We don’t like when something happens we’re not prepared for. We don’t like when life sends us a negative feedback.

I remember every single situation when I felt rejected. I was asking myself: why me? What did I do wrong? Did I say something wrong? Did I like someone too much? Did I ask for too much?

One day I realized that sometimes the more you ask the less you get. Sometimes the more you ask the less you get. Sometimes the more you insists the less you are listened.

I remember every single situation when I felt the worst. When I wanted to do something good, but eventually people were blaming me for doing something really bad.

I thought: it’s pointless to save the world when the world doesn’t want to be saved.

I remember every single situation when I felt at the bottom. When I expected something different than life gave me. When I wanted run away.

Until I understood all this is only to make me stronger.

In my life there was plenty of situations when I wanted to give up. I had two options. I could really give up or I could take the negative feedback life was sending me and do something better in my life. I knew the first option will lead me nowhere. And eventually will make me a grumpy cat. I chose the second one.

You know what was the best in all critical experiences when I was pushed to my limits?

I had to take life in my hands and to do things differently. All these bad events which occurred in my life made me stronger even if I’ve been not seeing it at that time.

I see it now.

And I’m thankful my life ain’t perfect. Because today I’m the person who I am.

And obviously I ask myself from time to time why can’t I have such a nice, easy and pleasant life as others do. But I realize after a while: no, they don’t. We all have got own problems, issues and challenges we are supposed to deal with. The only difference between us is the way of dealing with them.

We can give up.

We can ignore.

We can face.

We can fight.

We can accept.

We can ask for help.

We can try once again.

We can start over.

We can challenge.

We can learn.

We can change.

We can do something differently.

Let’s start over to make a difference in our life.

Have a great day full of motivation to make the difference!

Mimi.